You can't change them but you can...

Ever wanted someone to change?

You could see so desperately that they needed to change, for themselves and their family. 

So you just went ahead and said it to them... it did not go down well. 

I've been there. 

Watch this video to shift your perspective on behaviour change, learn the science of influence and get a system for positively influencing others. 

Intentional Actions

ABC framework

3 actions to kindly and positively influence

1.  Anecdotes

Instead of purely spurting scientific facts at someone, engage them in the visceral experience of a story of change.

2. Be the change

Think deeply about the character trait you wish someone to learn and be that character every day.

3. Clues

Leave visual triggers in the environment to spark their curiosity, but do not expect them to engage immediately.

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1 Character Challenge

Role Model

Think of one person who had a significant effect on your journey. How did they do it? Were they role models in some form? 

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Resources

1. Practitioner Empathy and the common cold

2. Dynamic spread of happiness - Harvard study

Enjoy!

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