1 Hidden Reason We Avoid Success

mind relationships work Sep 16, 2023


If you are reading this then you are investing in your success, fulfilment and inner peace.

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In 10 years working as I doctor I saw thousands of people chasing success and unknowingly creating sickness.

The inner disconnection, sense of lack and unfulfillment led to overthinking, negative relationships and low energy. This put internal pressure on their bodies...in other words, stress.

The dis-ease you feel about where you are right now creates disease.

But when you embody self-compassion, by virtue you calm overthinking, self-blame and isolation. This is not opinion - tens of thousands of research papers demonstrate how self-compassion transforms us at a root cause level.

Take the famous study by Peter Kinderman for example - it looked at the root causes for mental illness in over 30,000 respondents.

It was not…

- Genetics

- History of trauma

- Social status

It was rumination (overthinking) and self-blame.

What does this have to do with success? Well, the same principles apply.

The big unspoken reason why you avoid success, procrastinate on your dreams and avoid growth is that…

Somewhere deep inside, you believe you are not good enough.

The stuck emotions of shame and guilt keep you from fully committing to your dreams.

You are, of course, beyond good enough.

The real YOU is not defined by a name, status or anything you can acquire. It transcends this body, time and space.

It is infinite, eternal and limitless.



Don’t just take my word for it - read these quotes from spiritual leaders.

"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." The Buddha

"You are not a drop in the ocean. You are the entire ocean, in a drop." Rumi

"You are here to enable the divine purpose of the Universe to unfold. That is how important you are!" Eckhart Tolle



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